Brandy -
I hope all goes well today. I didn't really have any advice...
I will say that this visit reminds me of visiting with my ex's mother, usually limited to lunch when I bring her the kids. she is nice to me but I know she does not like me (that was clear years ago).
We see her for her grandchildren's sake. My oldest daughter has told me since the last visit she does not want to see her anymore (a bad alcoholic episode where she woke her up to complain to her about how my daughter hates her father, this woman's son).
I know it's not the same but I feel like these poeple are cut from the same mold.
The important thing is you see your daughter
Thinking of you
Maia