Oh Jamie!
I am a lurker to your other thread where you were struggling with a decision on adopting. And now this!
Oh honey, I don't know what to say, but please know I am with you in spirit. I can't imagine this happening now!
I am going to have faith that this will work out. (Just like I had faith in you making the correct decision for your family when you were deciding if you were going to adopt them).
1 thought - since they have been with you so long, and formed a bond, I would think staying with you would be in the better interest of the children.
Mary