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hi spay
i will ask about the other kids...i never thought about that...when i pick him up, he is usually by himself, either on the swing or sitting at the table with the other kids not really engaging.
the camp he goes to, is promidently african american, as well as the school he went too.....when we first got him, he said he was scared to go to school due to the "brown people"....his foster brother was african american, and he molested him.
so i understood the fear, but we worked through alot of it in his school....he loved his teacher, as did we, who was african american and who worked real hard with him.....
and he hasnt said anything about the 'brown people' in a long time.
i often wondered those fear are creeping up on him again.
plus, the hungry thing...good point there....i have actually thought about that too....he has a healthy apetite (you wouldnt know it by looking at him, he is so skinny) so i have been feeding them earlier, thinking that might be it also.
still cant rule it out though.....i know they feed him lunch early over there, maybe if i bring something in the car for him to munch on when i pick him up...just for the ride home and get something in his stomack
but these are great ideas, and i will look into it further. ill call the afterschool program today.
dadfor2
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