As an adoptive mom who searched for and found my daughter's birthmother (at her request when she was 26) I can say that the only fear that I had was that my daughter's birthmother might not be ready or able to meet her. Like most fears ALL of us have...that fear was unrealized and unfounded. Her birthmother welcomed her into her life with open arms.
An article that I wrote many years ago as one adoptive parent to other adoptive parents can be found on this link:
http://library.adoption.com/Searchin...cle/692/1.html
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California Website:
Other great websites to check out:
http://www.adoptionchat.com
http://www.adoptionlists.com
http://www.adoption.com
http://www.adopting.org
http://registry.adoption.com/