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Originally posted by bromanchik
And my point is that the adopted person, who had no say in the decisions made for him/her, deserves to have their wishes and needs respected. Yes, there are situations where both adoptive parents and birthparents need time to work through their fears. This I can understand. But I do not believe that an adopted adult needs to cater to these fears indefinately. For an adoptive parent or birthparent to say "I need time" is fine. For them to say "I do not want you to search" is another thing all together.
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This is exactly what I was trying to get across, only I think I got taken the wrong way. Sorry.