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"....I beleive that those that will latch on to the aparents feelings and use it ot minimize who they are as parents as being a little mean."
There are some adoptive parents who try to minimize who the birthparents are as well. One such example was a poster whose a/mom's reply to her daughter wanting to search was "Why would you want to find HER??"
This sort of meaness isn't nice but the reality is that it does goes both ways.
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