[love4]

to say if your adopted family has a problem with reunion, "do it any way, they'll get over it" hurts me to the core of my being. That to me sounds selfish. I am aware of the void in an adopted persons life. I understand how they need "to know." That is o.k. Reunions help heal those who hurt. Even though adoptive parents struggle with insecurities they are strong enough to work through them. Just validate their feelings. Understand that each member of the triad has emotions to work through. Sensitivity is important for each member to have. Adoptive parents are not the only ones who need to be sensitive. Words of love need to be backed up with actions. love4