[bratgirl]

I had to tell HR in order to get my employment and insurance letters. My bosses found out soon after that. I had to take off time with all the various surgeries and fertility procedures, so it's not like they didn't know we were trying to start a family. I told select coworkers when our dossier was submitted (mostly secretaries, since they were in the know, but I hadn't officially told them). I told other teacher friends throughout the year as they would ask how fertility things were going. My husband has only told his boss to this date. He is a very private person, whereas I am much more open with my life.