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We didn't tell anyone except immediate family until we'd accepted a referral. Then we told everyone and I informed everyone at my job -- I announced it at a staff meeting (though I'd alerted my supervisor and HR) so everyone found out at once and I could answer questions just one time. It was another 6 months before we traveled so they had as much notice as they would have if we'd been pregnant.
I'm glad I did it that way. Waiting for a referral (about 5 months) was tough enough without people asking about it.
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