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happygirl,
I am gong through a simular problem, its almost like my husband is trying to ignore my search. I go on about it all the time, it is the biggest thing in my life right now. My husband was also aware of my birthdaughter, before we married, he seemed fine with it at the time. He said all the right things, and told me how sorry he was, all the stuff you would want to hear. Now that I am actively searching, he has become distant about the whole thing. Thinks I spend too much time on the computor, to the point that I get up really early in the morning to talk on the forum. I really think that he does not like to think about my life, before him. He would rather believe that I had no life. I have made it quite clear, that I would continue to search. He would never tell me not to, but he makes me feel like I have to keep secrets, all over again. How can we make these men understand? This is not something we chose to do, its something we have to do. I would just like to be able to share this search with him, and maybe have his support. I have gotten more support from people on this forum, than he has ever offered. What can we do, its is like being between a rock and a hard place.
Robinsmoom
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