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The emotions that come with searching and hopefully, subsequent reunion are perplexing to say the least. I was quite surprised at all the feelings that surfaced especially after contact had been made.
Working through and talking with your therapist prior to reuniting sounds like a very helpful thing to do. Reunion bursts the dam wide open and if you have had the opportunity to talk to someone prior to this happening it will possibly ease the intense feelings a little, when contact is finally made.
I searched for many, many years and had almost reached the stage where I really believed contact would never be made....then one day, when I least expected it...surprise!!
Birthmom, Birthdad, two full brothers and a full sister. Overwhelming...and thats putting it mildly!!
Good luck and best wishes to you. I really hope you get some answers soon.
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