Lately I am realizing that I am upset
Good question, I can't say that i am, but what does upset me and make me angry is the mindset of our politicians and those lawmakers who have mad it nearly impossible for ADULT adoptees to access their OBC's. This, if you have been searching, could be some of your problem. As far as b-mom's, i believe they have the right to their privacy if they so wish, just not pertainent information which would satisfy most adoptees. As an adoptee i do believe every adoptee who wants information released should be granted complete access but only after approval of the local court whose jurisdiction the adoption took place. And the same for b-parents.
JMO
Mark 08-17-53
"I was born to a woman I never knew and raised by another who took in orphans. I do not know my background, my lineage, my biological or cultural heritage. But when I meet someone now, I treat them with respect. For after all, they could be my people." James Michener
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"Adoption Loss is the only trauma in the world where the victims are expected by the whole of society to be grateful" - The
Reverend Keith C. Griffith, MBE
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