Well I talked to our worker yesterday. She was very encouraging she told me that yes it was ok to look in other states. She said mosty certainly put your self out there. She made me feel SOoooo much better. I think that I understand now why we havent gotten called (besides that they havent placed lately) I think that they are being careful I dont think that they want to scare us off
So I feel better now and I will keep looking and waiting around lol.