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When I reunited with my birthfamily I asked my birthmother if my birthfather had been named as the Father....no, there were no details about my birthfather at all. When I received my non-id info the only info about my birthfather was limited details that my birthmother gave the agency.
Imagine my surprise when contact was made and I found out that my birthmother and birthfather married five years after relinguishing me. My birthmother had known my birthfather for many, many years prior to becoming pregnant with me. Their relationship was a meaningful one....very meaningful actually...they have now been married for 36 years!!!
Please don't assume anything. Please don't second guess why there are no details about your birthfather. You are doing yourself a great injustice by assuming the worst. Hang in there!! There will be days like this but they will pass. It can be a rough ride at times but hold tight believing that it will be better soon.
In my experience there usually is a silver lining behind every grey cloud.
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~Life may not be the party we hoped for,but while we are here we might as well dance~
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