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I have that problem with my in-laws.... I've come to the conclusion that they can say whatever they like in public or at their house, but at my house I'll call 'em on it. In addition, if they ever say anything in front of my daughter, I plan a pointed "Ahem!" and gesture to her. I hope they'll get the hint.
I'd love to say, "Oh, I'll just never talk to them!", but what does that teach Molly about forgiveness and unconditional love? It's actually a good opportunity to teach her that everyone has their own little quirks and flaws, and sometimes you just love them anyway.
Can't wait to hear what you decide to do!
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"Do not put your faith in a cape and a hood
They will not protect you the way that they should
And take extra care with strangers
Even flowers have their dangers
And though scary is exciting, nice is different than good.
.... Isn't it nice to know a lot? And a little bit... not.
--Stephen Sondheim
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