I am about to have FIRST CONTACT with my b-son.
He is a 17year old boy. . . very cool/popular guy.
I don't know how to begin to approach this first meeting. I have read posting after posting from mothers about first contact and what they brought with them. I have even read b-father first contact stories;however, those are usually with b-children who are older. Added to this, I will be meeting b-son with b-mother (we are married) as well. I am unclear what are the "male" expectations/rules for this type of stuff. Sorry if I offend, but I have to be honest about the way society behaves in this country. . .I don't like it, I just live it!
On top of bringing myself, I feel like I should bring a "gift". I am sure that my wife (b-mother) will bring a photo album. Lord, I have read enough of the b-mothers in forum talk about THAT being important. What's a DAD to do? What are 17-year old boys interested in (besides the standard Girls, girls, and of course girls). Probably not wise to bring 1 of them, since he already has a wonderful & beautiful girlfriend.
I want something good, but not something that sends the message that I am wanting to "BUY" affection. Any suggestions?
