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its not dishonest when you tell the cw from day one that you only want to adopt.
why do you have such a problem with it? whats so wrong with people wanting to adopt and in the meantime taking care of the child they wish to adopt? whats so wrong with a couple who UNDERSTANDS THE RISKS but still decides to foster-adopt because they feel like if they dont get to adopt the baby they have, at least they will have given the child a good home for the time they had him/ her?
it seems to me that you need to focus on what YOUR decisions have been, and leave other people to run their own lives.
if i get placed with a baby and the baby returns to the bparents, i will not be bitter. i will understand that was the risk i took and i will try to heal and move on. and in the meantime i gave that child a good home.
you have issues if you think there is anything wrong with that.
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~Krista~
**Age of 11 -- decided I wanted to adopt one day**
**March 2001 -- started trying to conceive with darling hubby**
**May 2004 -- after over 3 years, decided to take a break from fertility treatments**
**June 13, 2004-- realized that God was calling us to adopt now... not "someday" ...but now! what a feeling of peace! **
**June 14, 2004-- called Kentucky State adoptions office and asked them to send us information**
**June 16, 2004-- sent out letters telling our families of our intent to adopt. EEK! **
**Currently working with a social worker who is pushing foster-adopt on us. we havent decided what we want to do yet. **
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