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thank you
Thank you all for your replies. I was having a really bad day that day. Here is a small portion of our story: Dh and I were married seven years ago wanted to start a family soon after to make a very long and boring story short it didnt happen (pcod and hbp) So we decided to try the adoption route. We first checked into private adoption for some reason we decided aganist that (the long wait I think). Then we looked into international and had our hearts set on Korea Then we started trying to come up with the money ( without borrowing) and soon found out that was not possiable now dont get me wrong we do alright but I just didnt see the point in going into debit (at the time like thirty thousand) and then you have a child to raise and send to college. It just didnt make sense. Anyway to make and even longer story short it took us awhile to make up our minds to foster\adopt. we were afraied that we would have a hard time letting the children go (because we have such a strong desire to have children) after going through our mapp classes we decided that we would do both but we very strongly want to adopt. The workers which by the way so far have been wonderful said that we would probaly be so busy because there is only one other set of fp in our county. Now here we are a month later with no call no children and the desire (to have childern) as you all know dosent get any eaiser to deal with. So a few days ago we found a little boy on another state site that we are very intrested in inquiring about now we dont know what to do. I will probaly call worker tomorrow and see what her take on the whole thing is and I guess that we will make our decision after we see what she says. Thank you all so much I really appricate your advise and if you have anymore please feel free to give it lol.
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