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Old 06-16-2004, 09:51 AM
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We haven't been matched yet, but there have been 3 or 4 "designated" situations that we were approached with and the answer was no. It wasn't as hard as I thought to say no. Maybe the bmom will be so impressed with your integrity that she'll tell someone who will eventually lead you to your child. ALSO how often do you go to the temple. Until we went and sat and prayed for HOURS I had interpruted the Lord's answers wrong. Being at the temple I was able to clarify what he had been trying to tell me. I also have faith that if I continually CTR no one can screw up God's plan for our family. If it wasn't meant to be then it won't happen and if it was then it WILL. Ask for a priesthood blessing that you will have more patience and more faith and strength to make the hard choices.
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