Brx: Thanks so much for those list of questions I could prod Mrs. Votta with
Is it common for birth parents to update their information? I don't know why, but I have this feeling that my bmother had me and hasn't thought about it again... just as something that happened in her past. From reading posts by birth mothers, they say that they think about their reliniquished child everyday & never stopped loving them, so I know that my feelings are mixed because I feel like I'm at a brick wall in finding information..like it wasn't meant to be I guess. Needless to say, I'm not going to stop looking. Hopefully the laws in NC will change & let us know about us and where we came from..which only makes sense, but whatever.
If you think of any more questions that could be answered...I'd greatly appreciate it & thank you so much for replying to me!
Allie