Thank you all for your replies. Does anyone know if this rule of waiting and looking for children in your state applies in ky? Because I have been looking at the snap wesite for almost three years and in the age group that dh and I want to adopt the same children have been on there all three of those years. Also the children that are on the site in the age group that we want to adopt are reserved or placement pending. And we are not getting any calls so what are we supposed to do? we are not getting any calls and the same people that told us before that we would be sooo busy now dont seem to hopeful that we will be getting a call to soon.

Maybe Iam just having a bad day today. Some days it is easy to go on and not think about how bad dh and I want a child and some days are just unbearable. Thank you all for listening to my crazy ranting

Thank you for taking the time to read my post and thank you for any replies.