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im just beginning the adoption process myself, so i cant offer much in the line of experience but what i can tell you is that i have also heard that many bmoms PREFER a family with a child already because they want their baby to already have a sibling.
IMO i think its hard to say what most bmoms want because all bmoms are different and have different ideas of who they would want their bio kids to be with.
good luck to you... i really hope your wait isnt very long!
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~Krista~
**Age of 11 -- decided I wanted to adopt one day**
**March 2001 -- started trying to conceive with darling hubby**
**May 2004 -- after over 3 years, decided to take a break from fertility treatments**
**June 13, 2004-- realized that God was calling us to adopt now... not "someday" ...but now! what a feeling of peace! **
**June 14, 2004-- called Kentucky State adoptions office and asked them to send us information**
**June 16, 2004-- sent out letters telling our families of our intent to adopt. EEK! **
**Currently working with a social worker who is pushing foster-adopt on us. we havent decided what we want to do yet. **
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