[ccemtp63]

Thank you all for your input. As it happens, I had to make a decision before I got any feedback. I did agree to pictures 2 times a year until baby is approaching school age. (I'm afraid mom might come back and try to find her with the pictures she gets). All correspondence has to go through CYS so I'm safe there. Rights had not been terminated, although I was told that I don't have to agree to any of this. CW strongly suggested I agree to open adoption as it 'should' make things go smoother.

SOOOOO, I do. Nothing I'm not really comfortable with but still a lot for mom. And the morning mom was supposed to sign the consent and visit her daughter for the last time

SHE LEFT THE STATE!!!!!!! AGAIN!!!!! NO VISIT, NO PHONE CALLS, SHE JUST LEFT!!!!

Don't know what happens next. They assured me that if she didn't sign they would file the TPR immediately but foster CW doesn't know what adoption CW is going to do and neither return phone calls!