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Melody,
I was not familiar with your story but I went back and read the old posts.
I have an idea about how you might get around the statement that you would accept a different child. When I read your old posts you said that you would like to adopt two children. So why don't you say that you have so much respect for the county and its culture and that you do not want your child raised without a sibling that you would be willing to adopt two children. Your daughter and another child.
That way you are addressing the issue of another child but without showing any disloyalty to your daughter. You may not actaully have to adopt the second child but you are leaving the door open.
I think, though not sure, that if you adopt children at the same time internationally, it is less expensive than doing it in two different occasions.
Just a thought...
Good luck and God bless.
Robyn
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