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Jensboys provided some really great talking points. I would just add to mention whatever relationship you had established with the birthmother, what you learned of her family, and of the country's culture through her/them.
I don't really like the sound of the agency's suggestion -- it really does seems to be contrary to everything else you'd be putting into your letter to assure them that this little girl is so important to you. Not to mention, insincere with what's in your hearts. What happens if you don't put that in ... does that mean you would be ineligible for reconsideration for another placement if this girl is not placed with you? What I'm saying is, you could always cross that bridge if you come to it.
My thoughts are to be yourself and to be truthful, and to put the passions that you have expressed here on the forums into your letter.
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