[2inlove]

You know, I think this question of religious preference is an outdated one. I don't see any questions as to an adoptive parent's political preference listed (if I have overlooked it, please let me know) yet it invokes a passion just the same, in many people. Knowing nothing of the history of adoption, I am not an expert, but perhaps this was once a very necessary element of adoption? Faith-based organizations were (and still are) the place to go when a child was in need.

Today, people should be aware that there are many different people in this world... indeed in our own nation. These people have different cultures that enhance America's and they bring along their faiths. As a country, I do believe that we allow others to practice their religion (as long as it does not do harm to others or display odd or insensitive practices). This is part of the freedoms we hold dear and treat faith as a private matter.

Why a home study includes this private matter is beyond me. I am very happy with my spirituality, but prefer to keep this to myself. My husband is the same and, to a greater extent, discusses this very rarely. It is no one's business.

Perhaps the question should be revamped. Maybe updating and creating a different stance or angle would keep parents-to-be from seizing up when they come across it in the preliminary stages. What could this question be morphed into? Well, again, I am not an expert, but those who have a concern can indeed try to turn this into a less offensive or less imposing question.

This post has become too long. I would like to hear from others. What do you think?

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