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Ahhh... they just don't get it
I am sorry your husband isn't being as supportive as you would like. I expect that from people "unconnected"... but not from my family. And certainly not from my partner. I am sorry you are getting that slack.
You might have depend on us here... (ahhh love the forum) for more of your support and let your husband ease into it.
He might be afraid of losing you.... or afraid you will be hurt. Maybe ask him WHY HE is so against you having contact. Sometimes a simple question can answer a lot of things..... Then again, just like you can't answer the why... he might not be able to articulate it either.
Regardless.... be cautious if nothing else and remember the forum is here.. filled with people who do GET IT...
Here's a (((hug))) since it sounds like you need one.
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