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I absolutely agree with all you need is love... but you also need trust and you do NOT gain trust through lies.
I was loved BUT also very lied to... I was told that the 'dad' second daughter died in a car wreck before I was born... come to find out the reason I just loved her picture and was always drawn into staring at it, was because she was my real mother and died when I was 17 months old... and according to her/my 'sister' ??? she never let me out of her site unless she was at school (attending business college).... other interesting fact I only found out this week... my first appartment with my first husband was the SAME appartment she and I had... weird huh...
anyway as I was saying ... love yes ... that is all that babies and children need.... but as adults we need to be able to trust and lies do not equate to trust. I was out and out lied to. Even when I found proof and asked... the lies continued.. SO THERE I KNOW THERE IS A BIG DIFFERENCE between my situation and yours! I just want to make sure you think it out.
I did NOT know of the Jack Nicholson store so I had to look it up... perhaps he didn't have a problem because when he found out everyone involved (except him) was dead and there really wasn't anyone to talk to about it???
"He remained unaware of the situation till informed in 1974 by a journalist who'd been researching a feature on him. The details remain sketchy as, by that time, both his mother and grandmother were dead, both having taken their secret to the grave, and Nicholson subsequently had next-to-no contact with his real father. But this is the generally accepted truth."
OR maybe it really does bother him... there are many stories about him being a womanizer??? and maybe it's none of our business....
I WOULD STILL LOVE TO HEAR FROM OTHERS WHO WERE ADOPTED BY GRANDPARENTS AND NOT TOLD ABOUT IT UNTIL ADULTS or NEVER TOLD ABOUT IT... JUST FOUND OUT BY ACCIDENT!!!
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