[Rosies42]

Jack Nicolson is/has been in the same situation. He's fine. Must of been loved. In this world, all you need is love. Like I wrote, poll if you must but you will not change me or our situation. Everyone's situation is different. There are people out there that were raised by their own parents and not their grandparents and turned out to be serial killers. If I'd of had a choice of parents I surely wouldn't of picked out mine but I turned out fine. You must of been abused/confused to have such a chip on your shoulder over this whole issue. My MIL at the age of 15 was trying to put her daughter up for adoption when the natural father stepped in and took her to raise at the age of 1 and she's now 50 and still has issues with her mother. I think that's ridiculous to hold a grudge/chip for something that may at that time been the only option my MIL had. Move on with your life and overcome the obstacles, that's what we're here for. No one's life is perfect, if you find one, send them to me. We do the best we can with what we were given in this life. Throw the past behind you and look forward to the future. I've lost a son 7 yrs ago(he was 18)and am heartbroken. If I could of took his place under his car (where he was slowly crushed) I would of, but can't turn back the clock or subject those around me for something I can't do anything about. I HAVE to look forward to life. I have to.