[daveandjo]

My husband and I are adopting through WACAP. We think they are a great agency. Our dossier has been in Bangkok for 3 months now. People think that 3 months is a short time, but the wait is so painfully to me. The year before that we put our domestic papers in. The 3 years before that we messed around with the infertility, so it doesn't feel like just 3 months. It's been 5 years already! How do we get throught the next 18 months to 2 years. Does it really truly take that long? I've been reading the recommended books and all. My heart is just not in my work or anything else anymore. Thailand is definitely the country we want. I just want to be a mom.
Any advice?
Jo