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bromanchik, I just didn't want the poster to feel bitter toward not being offered a shower. I think that would be counterproductive. I know of women who gave birth to their children who didn't get a shower. We adoptive parents do deserve to be treated equally, I agree, but unfortuantely some people are very ignorant. I guess what I should have said is there is a difference between deserving a shower and being owed one. It is about the baby. Not so much about recieving things for the baby but having people around to celebrate in support of the baby. That, I felt could be achieved by the parents holding something for their baby themselves if no one would do it for them.
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