I agree with moroka and logansmom!!!! You and your wife deserve a shower like anyone else. Does your wife work? It could be the old double standard in not wanting to have the shower for a man. Hopefully, not. I pray you get a shower at church and at work. If you participated in the other showers, I believe when it is your turn you should also get a shower. I think the housewarming is a good idea also. We had two almost immediate placements and find it very difficult to plan. I want the benefits of a shower(games, gifts and attention), as I have been and bought for a million of them. Unfortunately, we will not be able to have one until after the baby is placed, which means we will have to buy the most important things b/c we will need them.
