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There could be lots of things going on here. I had kids chop up clothes they liked because they didn't feel they deserved them. Also, bio sib could be causing loyalty issues about acceptingnice things from you. She wants to keep them, so she hides them.
Stealing is a tough behavior to lose. Make sure she is doing something for restitution. Hold her 100% accountable for her choices. If she hides the clothes, don't replace them or even look for them. If she's stealing and lying-no going to other peoples houses as she might take their stuff(and tell her this with the deapest, loving empathy). If the therapist cannot help you in this area, find one familiar with foster care and adoption that can.
Don't give up yet, it could be a temporary set back that just needs some strong attention.
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