[sugarbabysmommy]

I know variations of this question have been asked, but I wanted to ask it again and hope no one will mind. At what point has everyone started their child's story? With the birthfamily, to meeting and matching, to birth, ending with going home -or- with the phone call to go to the hospital ending with going home -or- ???

I have been telling my child various versions (my little one's still preverbal so I have time to get this right) and haven't come up with something that feels right.

My main prupose for brining it up again was a comment made on a similar thread about the center of the story not being the adoptive parents, but that it should be the child. I'd very much like to make my little the center of the story and when the story starts seems to make a difference. A little background, we have a very open adoption that began in a longer than average match.