[littletanzy]

Thanks so much for sharing your story with me. I feel exactly like you on a lot of things. I have to play the "bad guy" as you were saying and make all the responsible decisions, whereas, when her moms around, it's all fun and games. I know in time Des will see the differences between us, whether good or bad, and appreciate the things that were sacrificed for her. But as you were saying, we don't criticize either, we just try to explain. I know in the years to come she'll have more questions, and she'll understand the difficult time we've had dealing with this. But in the meantime, it's hard to go through the day to day struggles and not be a little resentlful!!!

Best of luck!!