[GretschDrummer]

I was wondering if anyone has experienced problems when adopting as related to baby showers. My wife and I have adopted (birth adoption) and have not been asked if we want a shower thrown by our closest friends and co-workers. There are so many things we need. We adopted over three weeks ago.

At my office there are showers thrown all of the time. I participate in them (I am a guy) and spend money on other children. But when it comes to our adoption, no one is offering to throw one.

Has anyone had this problem? How should I, or should I address it? It saddens me to think people consider an adoption not worthy of a celebration. But they do not hesitate to ask me for money when someone has a birth.

Thank you in advance!

Love in Christ,
GretschDrummer