[megsmom]

When we adopted our daughter we had a name picked out- well up until we got to the hospital that name was fine with her birth mom, but after giving birth she felt different and wanted to give her a name also, so we gave her 4 names, it made us all happy and now my daughter has a name from her birth mom too, which will be special to her when she is older.
BUT I must say in recent experience's I 've had sometimes you meet a birth mom and she is one of a kind or becomes very special to you, and suddenly the things you thought you wanted in adoption such as naming the child no longer are important to you, my mistake was having set things I thought were right in an adoption- so my advice is dont be to set on your "ways" or thoughts and Ideas because you never know when they will change because a birth mom becomes very special to you.