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hi
I too have run across many people, especially ones even in my own family---that have said, well, you found them now it is time to get on with your life!!!! That is so stupid I think. My birthparents are both deceased & before I found them. So I have some contact with family on my birth father's side (my birthmom's side doesn't wish contact). That is OK but I still need some sort of closure, ya know? When me & my uncle talk it is just general "how's the weather" talk & sometimes I feel like I need more. But it is early with my reunion with him, so I guess I need to relax & give it time. At least he accepts me, where I fit in I'm not sure. I find myself distancing myself from people who don't understand the feelings I have. Just ignore the negative people & they will go away!!!! LOL Thanks.
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