[vicrose]

I-Thompson...you nailed it!!!I actually have run accross many people throughout my life who have never understood the whole complexity of my wanting to search..and yes, they were in no way part of the adoption triad....but, I ran accross the stupidest person of all...when I was speaking to the detective from the Poughkeepsie Police Department..who stated "why do you need your medical history anyway...is it really that vital"...of all the stupid people in the world...he really topped the cake....and the funny thing about it is...he didn't even realize it was a stupid comment...until I brought it to his attention!! Hugs, Brenda