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As a bmom I can only say what I would want my bdaughter to know. I would want her to contact me. I am searching for her now that she is 18. I want to give her a hug and let her know how much I love her and want to get to know her. I gave her up out of love, not because I didn't want her.
So, search, just remember some bmom had a bad experience. If you have a rocky reunion understand that it may not be you, but the experience that you remind her of. I have a friend who contacted her bmom. The bmom wanted nothing to do with her. Turns out the poor girl had been a victim of rape and the contact was a trigger for the incedent. So, still contact, just if you don't get a loving responce understand it isn't you, but maybe the circumstances in which you were conceived.
My best of luck to you. Not a day goes by that I haven't thought of my daughter and sent my love her way.
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