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Old 05-19-2004, 12:32 AM
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Re: Feelings that we "owe her"

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Originally posted by Dublin
I think the one thing I have had problems with since we adopted 5 months ago is that I have feelings that we "owe" the birthmom.



Have you considered the possibility that you owe each other? Maybe you feel that you owe her because she is the reason you have your child. Maybe she feels that she owes you because you were willing to adopt her baby that she was not in the place to care for at this time. Just a thought. :-)
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