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My daugher is 5 and was in her foster home for only 4 months, we got her at 4 months old. I have done a book on her life, which includes the foster parents. Now she doesn't remember them at all, just lately she has asked to see them and visit with them. I always send pictures and a letter to the foster mom at Christmas and she said she would be open to a visit. We have not done it yet, but I think my daughter will be fine so much time has past and the fact she can't remember.
Maybe tell the foster mom that you want to stay in contact and maybe in the future you can have visits.
My foster girls left in Aug and had been with us for 3 yrs, their adoption fell through they are now in another foster home but we have had contact with them and they are now getting adopted by another family. But my goal on them (they are 9 and 10) was to just have pictures and letters and down the road physical contact with them if they choose it. I would never push it even though we will miss them when they leave to an out of state home.
Debbie
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