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thank you for your replys. I did call caseworker again today and the foster mom had called OUR caseworker to discuss the situation. (I have the utmost respect for the foster mom but I feel that she is being a bit selfish) She basically told our caseworker that she thought daycare was the problem and that the child must be mirroring another childs behavior. I dont think she wants to accept that her phone call could have been a problem at all. She is a great foster mom and I think she did a wonderful job taking care of him but I think she dosent want to let go. Our caseworker is being more supportive of us and seeing that the call was disruptive for him.
as a sidenote, it bothers me that foster mom called our caseworker. I am just glad that I had talked to the caseworker first. She had also called the caseworker after we called her back and said we would do a phone call rather than a visit. I don't like this approach, we are her equals and I feel like she is not treating us as such.
Thanks again,
Kathy
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