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I would agree with lucyjoy. Having ongoing contact with the former fostermom produces a divided loyalty in his mind. Children who have been moved around need to feel secure where they are right now.
I would encourage you to talk to the other fmom and if she needs continued contact for a while (just to know he is safe and loved) then do that for her but let the boy have sometime with his new family only for a while....
All the best
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