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I think the most important thing is to have it clearly outlined in your mind what you are looking for in the adoption agreement. The worst thing you could do is leave a bmom with a false impression. I think when you get to the point where you are meeting with potential bmoms that you should just be as honest and up front as you can. In the long run it will be greatly appreciated. It's not that what you are looking for is unreasonable so don't be afraid to let a potential bmom know. I'm sure any bmom would just be thankful for your honesty. An adoption agreement is about mutual respect so you want someone who is on the same page as you in all aspects. Just my thughts...
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