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Old 04-27-2004, 09:12 PM
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There are people who are happy and well adjusted...

and adopted.

We just don't here from them because of that specfic reasons they have no major issues or being adopted is NOT there number one reason or rules their lives.

They've had a pleasant and happy childhood thus there is no reason to voice.

Just like we always hear bad news, but rarely good news on tv.

My cousin has and we unfortunately can not have her come and live with us right now.

She is still adament about letting us adopt her baby and checking with other family members she is still positive.

She has support of aunts, uncles, cousins, grandmother about placing the baby with us.

I know it will not be easy doing an open adoption , but we are ready. We live out the country so we could bond easily in the beginning.

Yasta

P.S. Don't get discourage talk to her, make her feel comfortable that you will support her whether she decides to parent or place the baby with you all.

Lastly, should you adopt the baby , give the baby unconditional love, safe and happy environment,also contact with the birthparent as needed.
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