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Old 04-25-2004, 07:00 PM
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First of all Congratulations!!!! I am so happy for you, and truly wish you both all of the best. Reunion is such a wonderful time, but yet it can be So intense. Take each day as it comes. Your emotions will be all over the place so buckle your seat belt, but enjoy the ride!

I truly think a letter is the best way to go for first contact. It could be email or snail mail, but if both of you have a computer email is MUCH quicker. As the two of you progress in your relationship you can start with phone calls, and then the Ultimate Face to Face. It is truly up to both of you and your comfort zones, but I believe taking your time is the best way to go. You can get to know each other slowly, and at your own pace while developing a rapport without feeling overwhelmed. I wish you both all of the best.....Update us to let us know how you are doing. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

Staci
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