hi there,

This is a good thread and one that future aparents should read. Adoption is as unique and different as the people involved. Unfortuantly there are some people that are adopted that DO have trouble with it, that do feel rejected or abandoned. Thankfully, I was not one of those. I have often said that adoption was a very good thing for me, even after finding my birthmom and hearing about the situation she was in. I have always felt that my afamily is just that... my family. I have 2 brothers and one sister and we are all adopted from different famlies. We are all as different as night and day....but we are still family!

I have often said that fate was good to me.....I was very lucky....