hi, i would just like to remind you that these boards are for people with 'issues', so you probably wont find many posts from the well adjusted, happy adoptees. unless they are here to help educate and inform, most are out living their lives with no need to be here. so please dont use a forum like this to base a judgement on. i made the same mistake when i first began our adotpion journey. and was pretty scared about it all, but once i educated myself, it all bacame clear and made sense. i say (like the others), read books, studies and ask questions. you will find your answer in the 'real' world.
good luck
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leannh
mom to
scott(18)grown
and a marine, emily-rose(4 yrs) and ty(2.5 yrs)
my bio & adoption x2 miracles