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I really have no advice. I just want to urge you not to toss those cards. I would say "you got a card from X today- would you like to see it?" If child says no- which it sounds like he will- then put them in a box for when he is truly old enough to make this decsion. If x is as inattentive as you say, this may be your son's only way to know his bfather loved him and thought of him one day. I know thats hard considering the way X is acting. But adoptees often want to know something good even about the worst behaving birth parents. Good luck I am glad your son has you.
Lisa
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